My Classmate Camelia; From Tehran to Manhattan, Our Magical Encounter

July 24th, 2014 by Bita Milanian - 1 Comment

Camelia_bookEarlier this month, on a business trip to NYC, I met Camelia Entekhabi-Fard for the first time, or so I thought. We had been introduced by a mutual friend, who met Camelia in Kabul, Afghanistan years ago, and stayed connected on Facebook, following each other’s unusual lives quietly without ever having met personally. Or so we thought.

Within minutes of our first in-person time together, we learned we were in the same school together in Iran, from ages 7 to 13.  How was it then, and for what mysterious purpose, that over three decades later we should look into each other’s eyes? Only time will tell, and in the meantime, I am honored to tell part of Camelia’s story, which she has already shared, in part, in her important first memoir, “Camelia: Save Yourself by Telling the Truth.”

CameliaA journalist, activist, poet, painter and provocateur, Camelia was born in Tehran and grew up during the Iranian Revolution. She was six years old when the Shah was overthrown by revolutionary supporters of the Ayatollah Khomeini, and by age sixteen, was a nationally celebrated poet. She began her career in 1992, and liked adventure and enjoyed writing about forbidden topics which did not always suit the conservative newspapers at the time.

As part of her writings for the daily Zan, she conducted research on women earning money in the Iranian city of Qom by engaging in temporary marriage with pilgrims and religious scholars, calling this a thinly veiled form of prostitution, and as a result of this and other actions in 1999 was locked in Towhid Prison for 11 weeks in solitary confinement, charged with breaching national security and challenging the authority of the Islamic regime.



September 11, 2001 – NYC

I cannot encourage you enough to read her memoir on this time, which is one of the most beautiful “Love Letters” to Tehran and Iran and the Persian culture and way of life before the fall of Shah, as well as an intoxicating and heart pounding, nearly cinematic account of those intense times with her interrogator, and her eventual escape from Iran to a life she now lives in Kabul, Dubai and New York, when she is not otherwise traveling and continuing to share her unique perspectives, writing for the Al Jazeera, Asharq Al-Aswt, Associated Press, Huffington Post, Mother Jones, New York Times, Reuters, Village Voice and many others. She is an expert on Iran and Afghanistan affairs, and a frequent contributor and guest on broadcast media, including CNN, MSNBC, Sky Arabia and Al-Arabiya TV.

Her first book was published first in English and has been translated to Arabic, Italian, Turkish and Portuguese. She is currently working on her next book which is a collection of her and contemporary Iranian writers short stories and poetry due out next Spring.


With Becky Anderson – CNN

In this feature on (Camelia Entekhabi-Fard’s Aha! Moment), Camelia talks about “Choosing Exile,” and her realization, which came while she was sitting in solitary confinement, that her life would always be lived as a journalist, seeking and writing about the truth:

“I knew that it was journalism that made my heart beat and that I would never give it up.”

This brief profile, part of my ongoing series about people who inspire me, will not be my last post on Camelia and her work. In fact, it is just the beginning, or should I say the continuation of a friendship and collective mission that began when we were just girls in the same school in Tehran.

photoWe have each traveled to many of the same countries, met virtually years ago, admired each other’s commitment and work, which holds up what is so ancient and beautiful about our shared heritage.

But now we have met – school mates reunited, sisters and storytellers now blessed to be continuing this mysterious life’s journey together.


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